Nigel James Archer

1978 - 2007
LocationOriginally Peterlee. Died In Stockton
Age28 years
Cause of DeathHeart Attack
Date of Birth23/12/1978
Date of Death27/08/2007
Visitors2,042 since 24/02/2008
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Nigel passed away on 27th August 2007 at North Tees hospital, aged 28. He was the loving son of Alan
and Jean and brother to Paul and Emma. He had three sons, Dre, Corey and Brendan. Nigel was brought
up in Peterlee but also lived in Middlesbrough and then Stockton. He died after a short stay in
hospital due to heart complications. Nigel was a very friendly and well liked person who had lots of
friends and a very loving family. You are very sorely missed and will always be loved by all who
knew you. Good night god bless Nigel. Sleep tight x x
**** Nigel also has another site on here, Nigel James Archer AKKA, and a memorial on the site
imorial.com. Thank you for all the kind thoughts, tributes and candles x x ****


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Recipe for Christmas All Year Long

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Take a heap of child-like wonder
That opens up our eyes
To the unexpected gifts in life—
Each day a sweet surprise.
Mix in fond appreciation
For the people whom we know;
Like festive Christmas candles,
Each one has a special glow.
Add some giggles and some laughter,
A dash of Christmas food,
(Amazing how a piece of pie
Improves our attitude!)
Stir it all with human kindness;
Wrap it up in love and peace,
Decorate with optimism, and
Our joy will never cease.
If we use this healthy recipe,
We know we will remember
To be in the Christmas spirit,
Even when it's not December.

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As Christmas time approaches
We miss you more and more
Memories of past Yule times
We always will adore
We still hang the decorations
Put the lights upon the tree
We hang the cards upon the wall
This one's for you, you see
Even though you are not here
You're always in our hearts
So we remember you this Christmas
While we're temporarily apart.

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I've set your place at the table
Your presents wrapped under the tree
Christmas carols playing
But you're not here with me
It seems harder this time of year
I miss you so much more
The only thing that gets me through
Are the memories of before
So here's a card just for you
To show how much I care
I know your waiting with the angels
One day I'll see you there.


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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum

Marie-Angela Rowe December 24, 2008

Hiya Nigel x

Hello Nige, hope you had a great day yesterday partying with all the other angels. We had a lovely time at ur Dad n mams house. Did you catch the balloons we all sent to you. Byron made us all laugh as we let them go, he was singing his version of Happy Birthday! lol, i bet you were laughing too. We brought u and Nan some flowers and a little christmas tree each. I hope you like them, they brightened up ur gardens. Anyway am gonna go. I have got another busy day today. The kids are VERY excited for santa coming tonight. They driving me nuts already!!!! Speak tya again soon, Nigel, love and hugs, Shell, Paul n kids x x x x x

Michelle Jackson (Sister-in-Law) December 24, 2008

Hello x

Hiya Nigel, i have finally found the lead for the camera so i can upload the pics of Brenden for you. There are quite a few but i am just gonna put two or three on for you. When we go up to ur dads on tuesday i will see if i can get some with ur mam and dad too for you. Hope ur pok. Im in the middle of doin dinner so i cant stay and chat for long. Speak to you again soon. Love Shell, Paul and gang x x x

Michelle Jackson (Sister-in-Law) December 21, 2008

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Hope he brings you lots of angel hugs and kisses from us lot x x

Michelle Jackson (Sister-in-Law) December 20, 2008

Hiya Nigel. Hope ur ok up there. We coming to see you on Tuesday, gonna bring you some flowers n stuff up for ur birthday and Christmas. Its gonna be sad u not being here again. We are all goin to ur Dads to let some balloons go for you again. It will be nice to all get together and talk about all the good times. I cant believe this is gonna be ur second birthday with the angels. Its mad, you should be here getting drunk lol, and making us all laugh like u used to. Well, you will be on our minds especially on ur birthday. Hope you dont party too hard over the weekend, save urself for tuesday lol. Love and kisses, Shell, Paul n kids x x x x

Michelle Jackson (Sister-in-Law) December 20, 2008

This Tribute Is For This Weekend A Little Longer Than Usual. Sorry It's So Early I've Got A Busy Weekend Ahead
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I will light my candles as usual on Sunday



Our memories build a special bridge
When loved ones have to part.
To help us feel we're with them still
And soothe a grieving heart.

Our memories span the years we shared,
Preserving ties that bind.
They build a special bridge of love
And bring us peace of mind.


When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;

I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today
While thinking of the many things
We didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you.
And each time that you think of me
I know you'll miss me too.

But when tomorrow starts without me
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name
And took me by the hand.

If tears could build a stairway,
And memories were a lane,
We would walk right up to heaven
And bring you back again.

Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you
No one can ever know.


But now we know you want us
To mourn for you no more.
To remember all the happy times,
Life still has much in store.

Since you'll never be forgotten,
We pledge to you today:
A hallowed place within our hearts
Is where you'll always stay.


A million times we've needed you,
A million times we've cried.
If love could have saved you,
You never would have died.

In life we loved you dearly,
In death we love you still.
In our hearts you hold a place
No one will ever fill.

It broke our hearts to lose you
But you didn't go alone.
Part of us went with you
The day God took you home.


Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela (Christopher-John Rowe) Mum

Marie-Angela Rowe December 18, 2008

Hello Nigel, hope ur ok up there. Well i wish you could have been here today to see two of your sons meet for the first time. I was lovely to see, and quite funny too cos i have never seen Dre shy before lol. We had Allyson and Brenden here for the night last night so we invited Dre over this morning to meet Brenden. Dre was goin all shy and cute! I got a few fotos of brenden to go on here for you, i will put them on later on. I wish i had got some of the two boys together but they didnt say much to each other. Dre was more excited about seeing Casey! But never mind. they both know about each other now, so they will come round in their own tim,e and get to know each other better hopefully. Ur Brenden is brill! He is just like you, really funny and happy all the time. He is big for his age, i couldnt belive it when he came. We are gonna meeting at ur mam and dads for ur birthday again so we will see him again next week, we cant wait. Anyway am gonna go and get some washing done. Speak to you again soon. Love and kisses, Shell, Paul and the kids x x x x

Michelle Jackson (Sister-in-Law) December 14, 2008

HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND EVERYONE


THIS TRIBUTE IS FOR FRIDAY (BUSY DAY FOR ME)


Our Lives changed, the very moment you passed away.
We couldn't stop it; there was nothing we could say.
You've touched our lives so deeply to a point you will never know,
We try to think about you when we are feeling down and low.
Sometimes when our day gets hard we will think about your beautiful smile
And if we listen hard enough we will hear your voice after a while.
It's you who give us a reason to go on with our day,
And now if we want to see you we'll bow our heads and pray.
We catch ourselves looking for you still, in the halls and at the front door,
But when we call your name there is no reply any more!
We never thought a day would come where we would be apart,
God has you in his keepings, we have you in our hearts.
Life will go on, but never will be the same,
Your beautiful smile is gone, but it will always remain.
You're our angel from up above.
You'll always be missed, but most importantly... loved.
Just one more minute, God, is all we ask- why can't you give them back;
It seems like such a simple task. We guess people are right when they say God only takes the best,
We know enough now that you're peacefully at rest.


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You can shed tears that they are gone,
Or you can smile because they lived,
You can close your eyes and pray that they will come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all that they have left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see them
Or you can be full of the love that you shared,
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember them and only that they are gone
Or you can cherish the memory and let it live on,
You can cry and close your mind be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what they would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.


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I'm writing this from heaven, where I dwell with God above.
Where there's no more tears or sadness, there's just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy because I am out of sight
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
And I will stay beside you, every day, week and year
And when you're sad I'll still be there to wipe away your tears.
When you think of my life on earth and all those living years
Because your only human their bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry it does relieve the pain
Remember there wouldn't be flowers unless we first had rain.
I wish I could tell you of all that God has planned
But even if I were able to, you wouldn't understand.
When your going down the street and you've got me on your mind
I'm walking in your footsteps and only half a step behind.
And if you feel a gentle breeze or wind upon your face
Remember it's only me with a loving and soft embrace.


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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)
Thursday

Marie-Angela Rowe December 11, 2008

Thinking of you today and always x

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Michelle Jackson (Sister-in-Law) December 1, 2008

Have A Good Weekend Everyone


Right now I'm in a different place
And though we seem apart
I'm closer than I ever was
... I'm there inside your heart

I'm with you when you greet each day
And while the sun shines bright
I'm there to share the sunsets, too
... I'm with you every night

I'm with you when the times are good
To share a laugh or two,
And if a tear should start to fall
... I'll still be there for you

And when that day arrives
That we no longer are apart,
I'll smile and hold you close to me
... Forever


If Roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me
Place them in my Loved One’s arms
And tell them they're from me

Tell them I love and miss them
And when they turns to smile
Place a kiss upon their cheeks
And hold them for awhile

Because remembering them is easy,
I do it every day
But there's an ache within my heart
Because I am missing them today...



Although death has separated us physically,
Faith and love have bound us eternally.
Though we cannot see you,
We know you are here.

Though we cannot touch you,
We feel the warmth of your smile,
As we begin a new chapter in our lives.
Today we pause to reflect upon

Those who have shaped our character,
Molded our spirits and touched our hearts.
May the lighting of this tribute be a
Reminder of the memories we have shared,

A representation of the everlasting
Impact you have made upon our lives.

Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
Friday

Marie-Angela Rowe November 28, 2008
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